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Not That Bad: Dispatches from Rape Culture by Roxane Gay

kiradelelongshlong's review against another edition

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5.0

Helped heal my inner child

laurenscholle's review against another edition

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5.0

TW: SA

This book was so pivotal in helping me understand what happened to me and that I should not feel ashamed or compare my experience to others. Each essay in this book is from such a unique perspective and the voices of the authors are not lost on the format. I adore it and would rec to anyone looking for a book about healing from SA without necessarily a medical/therapy slant

wandering_canuck's review against another edition

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challenging emotional reflective sad tense fast-paced

5.0

I've come to expect nothing but greatness from Roxanne Gay, and this anthology of essays is no exception. Though each write 's stories and style are uniquely individual, the collection is cohesive. 

Dark and raw, these stories drip with honesty, sadness, rage, confusion, and anger. Terrifyingly, one emotion that it lacks is hope. This book is a conundrum, as the tellers are powerful and poweless. 

This books has two flaws:
1. That the women who read this will too easily relate to the stories AND
2. The people who should read these stories are the least likely to pick it up. In that manner, I suppose the flaws lie not in the collection, but in society itself. 

#MeToo

hispoetry's review against another edition

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4.0

I wish this had more positive stories of overcoming. It was hard to read for me. I’m sure it’s great for others.

cathysj's review against another edition

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challenging emotional informative reflective sad medium-paced

4.25

sarahautry's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective medium-paced

4.5

memaren's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional informative reflective sad medium-paced

5.0

kimberlyf's review against another edition

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4.0

A raw collection of deeply personal essays that shine light on the commonplace of sexual violence in today’s world. I appreciated the diversity of people represented here and that each writer read their own story on the audiobook, making for a unique, heart-wrenching listening experience. I also appreciated that this book helps to open the discussion on sexual violence/assault so as not to shame victims but it left me feeling like ‘what now?’

kimberleyjay's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional sad medium-paced

3.75

gracehknox's review against another edition

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dark emotional reflective sad tense medium-paced

4.5