A review by sara_shocks
The Unreality of Memory: And Other Essays by Elisa Gabbert

5.0

Ahhh what a collection, I was not disappointed--anticipation can really influence feelings on an outcome, after all.

I'm not even sure how to talk about all the topics she covers -- global warming, the end of the world, disasters (including pandemics), the role of the media, compassion and its utility, pain, the nature of reality, how we consider memory -- because she has arranged and synthesized them so beautifully here. I flagged many, many lines in this book, and I don't think I can pick one favorite essay (or even three).

Several people have told the author they find this soothing in spite of the grim subject matter (our inevitable end as a species), and I think this is because Gabbert's essays "complete the cycle," to borrow a framework from the Nagoski sisters. Doomscrolling is ultimately unsatisfying because there is no endpoint to the bits of bad news; Gabbert has meditated on the broader topics and taken them to some conclusion, even though she does not (and cannot) offer solutions.