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sambam_42 's review for:
How Not to Hate Your Husband After Kids
by Jancee Dunn
This provided some interesting ideas on how divide the work in a relationship a bit more equitably among the partners. The ultimate goal being to reduce stress (especially on the wife/female partner) and increase family harmony. It did not discuss same sex relationships except to say that they did not fall into the same, predictably gender-based patterns that opposite sex couples tend to find themselves in. Not a gospel to live by, in my opinion, but there are some good tips and tricks to help out if you're feeling stressed, unseen, overworked, or under-appreciated.