Review by ishifishireads - Kim Jiyoung, Born 1982

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Kim Jiyoung, Born 1982 by Cho Nam-joo

4.0

dark emotional informative reflective sad medium-paced

Plot or Character Driven: Character

Strong character development: Complicated

Loveable characters: Complicated

Diverse cast of characters: Yes

Flaws of characters a main focus: No

This novella was as blunt as it was powerful—a tell-it-like-it-is account of the average life of a woman born in Korea in 1982. There’s nothing flowery about the writing, no attempt to soften the blow. Instead, Cho Nam-Joo delivers an almost clinical narration that walks you through the phases of Jiyoung’s life—childhood, adolescence, career, marriage, motherhood—and ultimately, her gradual mental unravelling.

What stayed with me was how matter-of-fact the tone was, almost unnervingly so. There’s no melodrama, just a relentless piling on of ordinary injustices that, together, paint a bleak yet familiar picture. From seeing mothers sacrifice education for their brothers, to classrooms where boys dominate leadership positions, to the snide and casually misogynistic comments thrown at job interviews, and finally to careers surrendered after childbirth—the book doesn’t reveal anything we haven’t heard before. But the way it’s presented, paired with stark statistics, forces you to stop and absorb the weight of these realities.

The brilliance of the book lies in its ordinariness. The experiences Cho lays out aren’t rare—they’re everyday, and that’s what makes it so confronting. There’s a sense of quiet rage woven into the simplicity of the language; it never needs to shout to make its point. Instead, it leaves you with that unsettling awareness of how ingrained these attitudes and behaviours truly are.

And then there’s the ending—a satirical, almost biting twist that feels both clever and chilling. Without giving anything away, it left me with the sense that we’d come full circle, and not in a way that inspires optimism.

Reading Kim Jiyoung, Born 1982 felt like staring into a mirror that reflects not just Korea, but much of the world. It’s honest, sharp, and unflinching—a novella that’s deceptively simple yet deeply thought-provoking. At times it reads almost like dystopian fiction, and yet, it isn’t. That’s the most unsettling part.

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