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caldwell82's review against another edition
slow-paced
2.25
it was so repetitive and boring. if you're somewhat familiar with feminism and its history - this book won't teach you anything new. also in the modern world where we have so much access to information on self-help and self-improvement, i will not be looking at men with forgiving and understanding eye. i support women hating on men and i think men should try to understand our point of view rather than the opposite.
rhatbog's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
hopeful
informative
reflective
medium-paced
4.5
hannavaistila's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
hopeful
reflective
slow-paced
3.0
haligon_ian's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
hopeful
informative
fast-paced
5.0
mmclain's review against another edition
challenging
emotional
hopeful
informative
inspiring
reflective
fast-paced
4.0
roxanne_blythe's review against another edition
challenging
informative
inspiring
reflective
fast-paced
4.0
This book really does explain men masculinity, and love. I feel like the intended audience is women, not that men don’t need to read this, but I feel like it was directed towards feminists.
The main messaging is pretty decent. There are some points that I don’t fully agree with specially the blame that’s kind of placed on mothers for upholding the patriarchy. Not that they should be blameless, but I feel like the way that bell hooks writes about fathers is very different from the way that she talks about mothers.
Maybe I will need to revisit those points but for now I just feel like there’s not a lot of nuance when it comes to patriarchal mothers
The main messaging is pretty decent. There are some points that I don’t fully agree with specially the blame that’s kind of placed on mothers for upholding the patriarchy. Not that they should be blameless, but I feel like the way that bell hooks writes about fathers is very different from the way that she talks about mothers.
Maybe I will need to revisit those points but for now I just feel like there’s not a lot of nuance when it comes to patriarchal mothers
Content Warnings
Graphic: Domestic abuse, War, Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Sexism, and Violence
Moderate: Addiction, Sexual assault, and Sexual violence