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hayleyholliday's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Sexual content, and Gaslighting
Minor: Self harm and Suicide
jojo__'s review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
4.5
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Sexual content, Sexual violence, and Sexual assault
Moderate: Homophobia, Lesbophobia, Biphobia, and Self harm
natalie_gnr's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
Graphic: Sexual violence, Emotional abuse, Toxic relationship, and Sexual content
lgibson314's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
Graphic: Cursing, Domestic abuse, Drug use, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Infidelity, Sexual content, Sexual violence, Suicidal thoughts, Torture, and Toxic relationship
decklededgess's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
The first five chapters of this book imply it's going to be a hilarious comedic romance instead it turns out to be a self discovery book revolving around an abusive relationship with hilarious elements that you feel bad for laughing at.
One point of contention in the plot is that a romantic partner is polyamorous and the main character has an issue with that. In certain situations it certainly could read as misrepresenting polyamorous relationships, maybe even villainizing. As an outsider to the community it didn't read as such because this was hundred percent more about the partner being a vile person when not getting their way instead of like...normalizing a poly relationship. Every subcommunity has their good and bad aspects and this book simply represents one of the bad aspects.
As long as you go into this book with the awareness that what is being represented isn't a reflection of the community as a whole or a statement on polyamory as a whole then you're good to go. It's well written, it's nuanced in its understanding of abusive relationships, and does a stellar job of indicating that the issue that is marked as "cheating" can be addressed by the MC advocating for her needs in her relationship (with the explicit understanding that the relationship is abusive and therefore there are some exceptions to conflict resolution here).
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, Gaslighting, Mental illness, Rape, Sexual assault, Toxic friendship, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Alcohol, Alcoholism, Drug abuse, Drug use, Infidelity, Lesbophobia, Panic attacks/disorders, Physical abuse, Self harm, Stalking, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide attempt, and Sexual violence
danajoy's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
Graphic: Sexual content, Vomit, Toxic relationship, Emotional abuse, Drug use, Infidelity, and Gaslighting
Moderate: Alcoholism, Death of parent, Lesbophobia, Suicidal thoughts, Sexual violence, and Self harm
Minor: Dementia
cheesepuppy's review against another edition
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
4.5
Check the trigger warnings!
Someone else’s review mentioned this was their first LGBTQ read. To them, I’m sorry and I hope you didn’t think this representation was normal. Same goes for the polyamory and BDSM representation, this was
Graphic: Emotional abuse, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual content, Sexual violence, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Drug use
Minor: Self harm and Biphobia
lluvia_'s review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Graphic: Drug use, Emotional abuse, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Sexual violence, and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Rape and Sexual assault
mrkthrnmln's review against another edition
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? N/A
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
Graphic: Emotional abuse and Sexual violence