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Was wir Frauen wollen by Isabel Allende

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gvstyris's review against another edition

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3.0

I am not ready to pass the torch and hopefully I never will be. I want to light the torches of our daughters and granddaughters with mine. They will have to live for us, as we lived for our mothers, and carry on with the work we didn't have time to finish. 

This was my first time reading Allende, funnily enough, and I'm not quite sure she knew what she wanted to do with Mujeres del alma mía. It's something of a feminist manifesto and a slightly unserious memoir combined, and I enjoyed my time reading it enough to devour it one sitting. I can't say that I've gained much from the experience, though -- beyond an increased appreciation of Allende's career and drive.

My spur-of-the-moment purchase of this novel also unfortunately led to me reading the English translation, which undeniably changed my reading experience. If nothing else, I will say that I'm now more eager than ever to get my hands on a copy of El Viento Conoce Mi Nombre.

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jdrosario_'s review against another edition

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5.0

i’ve never really read many non fiction, but this one is absolutely amazing. it’s brutally honest, it doesn’t skate over any fundamental truths of the book. it talks about women’s sexuality, promiscuity, misogyn, feminism (obviously), machoism, rebellion, age, sexual violence and torture of women, reproducitge rights and gender identity. it’s so informative but somehow keeps a witty humour to it, i highly highly recommend!!! 

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halkid2's review against another edition

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informative inspiring reflective slow-paced

3.75

Part autobiography and part feminist treatise, THE SOUL OF A WOMAN is unlike the novels of Isabel Allende that I have read. It's much more the personal reflection of an older woman looking back at her own life and the current world that surrounds us. 

There is lots to learn about what the author's has lived through, including:

• the traditional values held by her parents and grandparents,

• the violence associated with Chile's repressive political history,

• her early determination to achieve financial independence through her writing,

• two divorces and the death of her much-loved daughter, Paula,

•  and finally, at the age of 82, a reflective review of her own success, lifelong commitment to feminism, and contentment in her senior years. 

At the same time, there is much in the book that can be universally applied to the lives of women in all strata of society. Particularly our skills, interests, and concerns.

I didn't find the writing as lyrical as Allende's novels. THE SOUL OF A WOMAN is more straightforward, even didactic. Her arguments in favor of making women fully equal to men (around the world) are persuasive and read, in many places, like she's delivering a political speech. I happen to agree with her so that made it easier for me to enjoy the book. If I hadn't, I might have stopped reading.

It's a relatively short book (175 pages) but quite powerful. As she explains near the end of the book, Allende wrote his one in 2020, near the beginning of the global pandemic. And it's clear that timing influenced the book -- since she writes about the opportunity we will all have when the pandemic ends. A fresh chance to remake a better world. Of course now, three years later, it doesn't appear to me that gender equality has been targeted as an important worldwide goal. In fact, you could well argue many countries are in a period of regression where women have less control, rather than more.

Nevertheless, I recommend the book for its reasoned arguments, for its optimism, and for the image Allende offers of a world populated by equals.

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bookswithbront's review against another edition

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4.0

Reading this felt like talking to a very cool, progressive grandmother: winding and rambling and not always aligned with how I see the world, but ultimately full of beautiful insight. I think this is a book I’ll want to revisit when I’m older, too. 

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caroline_rt's review

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informative inspiring reflective fast-paced

4.25

I like that worldwide numbers, statistics and facts were presented in an easily understandable way and also non-western circumstances were described. It is  very inspiring that a woman from an “older“ generation & from a  conservative country like Chile is fighting for feminism her whole life. The book gives away motivation to keep standing up for oneself and other women even though it often is frustrating.

What I did not like: Some statements were surprisingly conservative and did not really fit to the rest, e.g. feeling sorry for a man who cannot handle his girlfriend‘s  interest in sexual psychology, or reproducing narratives about women (being sensitive/empathic, able to love unconditionally or aiming to protect their children at all cost which was presented as kind of „life goal“). In general, the book is written out of an hetero cis perspective only and might therefore not be very relatable for LGBTQIA+ persons.

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clarabooksit's review against another edition

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3.75


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gem114's review against another edition

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funny informative slow-paced

2.5

I wish I could rate this book in two parts. The first half was a very interesting memoir about Isabel Allende's life and upbringing. The second half, however, felt like a knock-off of the Vagina Monologues re-written as a textbook. At one point, she even mentioned the Vagina Monologues, and I had to roll my eyes because of how obvious it had been that the monologues inspired much of what she was writing about. I realize that sounds harsh, but it was pretty disappointing compared to the first half of the book.

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5.0


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5.0


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