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josiemj's review against another edition
5.0
this book felt like a friend who finally saw me for who i was and i'm genuinely kinda fucked up about how i've finished it and can never read it for the first time ever again.
s_che's review
funny
hopeful
reflective
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
klrnshelves's review against another edition
emotional
inspiring
lighthearted
reflective
fast-paced
5.0
odylics's review
dark
emotional
funny
sad
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Diverse cast of characters? No
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
sandpiiper's review
4.0
a wonderful little reflection on transness and navigating relationships while trans. this is kind of everything i wanted detransition baby to be
sagefikse's review against another edition
funny
lighthearted
medium-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
3.75
artdumptruck's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
I think it's going to change my life? Only time will tell
kemcgarr's review against another edition
challenging
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? It's complicated
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
2.5
avaafran's review against another edition
adventurous
funny
hopeful
informative
reflective
slow-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? No
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
3.75
eeeoooo's review
adventurous
challenging
emotional
funny
informative
fast-paced
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? It's complicated
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.5
Love love love Maria. She's self aware most of the time even if she usually doesn't know what to do about her shortcomings and has really great insights on the trans experience. She's also hilarious and deeply relatable (for better or worse). I see a lot of myself in aspects of both her and James. The book didn't really have a satisfying ending, as admitted by the author, but I think the ending is true to the characters and true to reality. As much as I wish to have had a trans fairy godmother step into my life and help unravel the great mystery of why I was such a miserable little shit for so many years, I'm not sure things would have turned out very differently or if I would have even been willing to listen.
The writing style may put some off, but I personally found it brimming with personality. Also the afterword is required reading.
I'll definitely be rereading this one at some point.
The writing style may put some off, but I personally found it brimming with personality. Also the afterword is required reading.
I'll definitely be rereading this one at some point.