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40-Love by Olivia Dade

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bookishmillennial's review

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funny lighthearted reflective fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? No
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premise:
  • contemporary fictional romcom
  • second book in an interconnected series of standalone romances 
  • told in third-person limited POV
  • Tess Dunn, 40-year-old aspiring principal of Marysburg High School, goes on vacation to an island (can't remember which one, sorry lol) with her best friend, Belle, who moved to Chicago recently
  • She runs into 26-year-old Swedish tennis player, Lucas Karlsson, as he helps cover her and get a towel when a wave takes off her bikini top in the ocean (lmao only in romcoms, amirite!?)
  • She has no idea he was a former pro-tennis player and Belle sneakily signs Tess up for nightly 1:1 lessons with Lucas for the two weeks they are on vacation
  • Tess has chronic knee pain, while Lucas has post-surgery struggles with his wrist; they connect beyond a vacation summer fling, even though Tess adamantly tries to deny their chemistry
  • tropes: grumpy x sunshine, opposites attract, summer romance, instalove, age gap
  • cw: fatphobia, diet culture, infidelity, sexual content, gaslighting, toxic relationship, ageism
  • steam: 3/5 

thoughts:
I am *not* an instalove honey. However, I had a lot of fun with this one! Tess & Lucas were both such sweet characters that I couldn't help but root for. They are pretty much the epitome of "when you know, you know!" and I'm not mad at them for it! 

Besides the romance, I loved the topics that Lucas and Tess discussed:
  1. ageism: I think people forget about how deeply seeded our biases are about age, especially those who are younger. When we talk about the -isms, I feel like I don't see as many people talk about this, and of course, I am privileged to be 31-years-old but I remember the ageism I experienced as a teenager up until a few years ago, and sometimes, even now because I "look young". I know I will experience it again at its height when I'm in my retiring age (crossing my fingers I make it that far<3). Sure, there are absolutely some young kids and new adults who are absolutely horrible and represent their age groups terribly. However, I loved that Lucas called Tess out for her ageism, as she was judging him and was completely off base! Her lived experience with her ex was valid, but she shouldn't have projected that onto everyone 20-something within her proximity.
  2. body neutrality: I recently struggled with another book that did not mindfully tackle body image issues, fatphobia, and diet culture. However, I think Olivia Dade did a beautiful job of illustrating what body neutrality sounds and looks like as Tess talked about her body and her health. 
"From what he could tell, she hadn't used the word fat as a pejorative. There had been no venom in the adjective, no bitterness or sadness, no implicit plea for his denial. It had served only as a descriptor, rather than a sign of self-loathing. Matter of fact. Value-neutral.

And he wasn't going to protest that she wasn't fat. They both knew better. Contradicting that would be patronizing as hell, insulting in its own way. More importantly, protesting might imply that being fat was somehow bad. Somehow the worst thing she could be, rather than merely one aspect of a complex, fascinating woman."

Overall, this was a fluffy romcom with steamy scenes (literally still thinking about the steamy scene in the shower asdakjdhaksdhgahgsd) and Lucas is the king of emotional and physical aftercare. A Swedish, goofy king. No choice but to stan!!!!
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the_vegan_bookworm's review

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lighthearted relaxing medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? No
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

I really enjoyed this book, the romance and the characters throughout! Easily one of my favourites by Olivia Dade.

Some reviews complain about the way the age gap is brought up constantly by Tess, which I can understand, but I felt that it revealed a lot about Tess' self-perception. I also appreciate that it is addressed fairly early on in the book.
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