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Reviews tagging 'Toxic friendship'
Hey, Hun: Sales, Sisterhood, Supremacy, and the Other Lies Behind Multilevel Marketing by Emily Lynn Paulson
20 reviews
purcellapple's review
3.75
Graphic: Toxic friendship and Toxic relationship
Moderate: Bullying, Alcohol, Emotional abuse, Racism, and Alcoholism
bmpicc's review
3.0
I'm not sure I know anyone at this point who has not been invited to a "party", let alone how many of us have been an active part of one. Yes, even me. I sold ********* when our son was first diagnosed with allergies because we didn't know how deep his issues went. I didn't know where to turn for safe cleaning & hygiene products. I was a new mom and an easy target. We all have a story.
Moderate: Addiction, Bullying, Classism, Cancer, Pandemic/Epidemic, Hate crime, Religious bigotry, Toxic friendship, Gaslighting, Emotional abuse, Ableism, Alcoholism, and Racism
pmhandley's review against another edition
3.5
Moderate: Gaslighting, Alcoholism, Alcohol, Addiction, and Toxic friendship
Minor: Sexual assault and Homophobia
josie1999's review
3.5
One of the major downsides for me is that I feel this book was written a little too prematurely. I have not been able to find a verified date Emily officially left the MLM but given the fact she was still in the MLM when George Floyd was murdered, the book was written and published within 3 years of her leaving and it is possible she has not reconciled with how dangerous MLMs really can be. In the final few years, she seemed to be resolved that she didn't want to be a part of the MLM anymore she was still okay with accepting the money she was making from doing essentially no work. The straw that broke the camel's back for her to leave were the events of 2020 (COVID, George Floyd's murder, Black Lives Matter protests, and the election) which I can appreciate that she didn't want to support or be a part of a company that didn't stand against the lies and misinformation that was begin spread by its consultants, but it's hard not to wonder if those things hadn't happened or come to light, how much longer would she have stayed? If she could have made changes from the inside, would she have remained to continue getting the passive income? She also doesn't take a stand on whether or not MLMs should continue to exist. Instead, she says there should be stronger regulations and only a single level. To me, it seems contradictory to say there should only be single-level MLMs.
An area that I do agree with her on is that the individuals who get involved in MLMs should not be seen as stupid or careless because they are often women looking for connections that can be hard to find. People involved with MLMs are both victims and predators. I will add a caveat that I think once, a person reaches a point where they are doing less of the active work and are solely relying on their downline, they are less of a victim at that point. However, I think there is room to have grace for the individuals while denouncing the organization that is exploiting their labor.
Graphic: Toxic friendship
Moderate: Drug abuse and Alcoholism
raereads23's review
4.0
Moderate: Addiction, Alcoholism, and Alcohol
Minor: Sexism, Racism, Ableism, Classism, Emotional abuse, Pandemic/Epidemic, Toxic friendship, Body shaming, Misogyny, and Gaslighting
amsswim's review
3.75
Graphic: Addiction, Alcoholism, Gaslighting, Toxic friendship, and Alcohol
Moderate: Cancer, Sexism, Body shaming, Classism, Cursing, Emotional abuse, Racism, Misogyny, and Bullying
Minor: Drug abuse, Drug use, and Sexual assault
tinytrashqueen's review against another edition
3.5
Graphic: Cancer, Religious bigotry, Toxic friendship, and Alcoholism
Moderate: Gaslighting, Racism, Pandemic/Epidemic, and Police brutality
Minor: Suicide attempt
mountain_adventures's review against another edition
2.5
On the downside, I hated the analysis into white supremacy and trauma as that could have been handled better. I would have preferred the author to just stick to her own story. The book was in need of a good content editor to keep it shorter and cut out some of the tangents on things like essential oils. The end of the book feels like a giant ad for the author's new company which was off putting.
Graphic: Alcoholism, Cancer, Alcohol, Toxic friendship, and Gaslighting
jcrawford31's review against another edition
4.0
Graphic: Toxic friendship, Alcoholism, Alcohol, Cancer, and Racism
winter_loves_cookies's review against another edition
4.5
Graphic: Alcohol and Alcoholism
Moderate: Toxic friendship, Misogyny, and Gaslighting
Minor: Racism and Pandemic/Epidemic