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Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing by Matthew Perry

kmaries2017's review

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challenging dark emotional funny hopeful informative inspiring reflective sad medium-paced

4.5

alniwi555's review

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emotional funny hopeful informative inspiring lighthearted sad medium-paced

5.0

lauracs6's review

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emotional hopeful inspiring reflective sad slow-paced

4.0

kas5132's review

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dark emotional hopeful sad slow-paced

3.75

novelishx's review

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challenging dark emotional funny informative inspiring reflective sad medium-paced

4.0

 ๐Ÿ“š ๐—”๐—จ๐——๐—œ๐—ข๐—•๐—ข๐—ข๐—ž ๐—ฅ๐—˜๐—ฉ๐—œ๐—˜๐—ช ๐Ÿ“š

๐™ต๐š›๐š’๐šŽ๐š—๐š๐šœ, ๐™ป๐š˜๐šŸ๐šŽ๐š›๐šœ ๐šŠ๐š—๐š ๐š๐š‘๐šŽ ๐™ฑ๐š’๐š ๐šƒ๐šŽ๐š›๐š›๐š’๐š‹๐š•๐šŽ ๐šƒ๐š‘๐š’๐š—๐š ๐š‹๐šข ๐™ผ๐šŠ๐š๐š๐š‘๐šŽ๐š  ๐™ฟ๐šŽ๐š›๐š›๐šข.

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โ€œHi, my name is Matthew, although you may know me by another name. My friends call me Matty. And I should be dead.โ€
So begins the riveting story of acclaimed actor Matthew Perry, taking us along on his journey from childhood ambition to fame, addiction, and recovery.

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Matthew Perry's Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing comes to life in its audiobook format, delivering an intimate and deeply personal listening experience. Narrated by Perry himself, this memoir is an unflinchingly honest account of his battles with addiction, fame, and the search for redemption.

One of the standout features of the audiobook is Perry's narration. His unique voice, familiar to many of us as Chandler Bing from Friends.
Perry's delivery is raw and genuine, capturing the humor, pain, and vulnerability that permeate, not only his memoir but, his existence. Hearing his story in his own words and voice makes the experience so much more emotional and impactful.
Perry's wit and humor shine through, providing moments of levity that balance the heavier themes throughout.

The audiobook's structure, while occasionally disjointed, benefits from Perry's storytelling ability. His transitions between different periods of his life, though sometimes abrupt, are smoothed over by his conversational tone and natural pacing. This helped me maintain interest, even when the timeline shifts unexpectedly - which is ultimately why this is not a five star read for me.
The audiobook is a compelling listen, some listeners - like me - may find the non-linear narrative challenging to follow. The jumps between different time periods can be confusing, especially in audio format where visual cues are absent. However, Perry's engaging narration and the emotional resonance of his story largely compensate for this lapse in structure.

Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing is more than just a celebrity memoir; it's a heartfelt exploration of addiction and recovery. Perry's openness about his struggles and his ongoing journey towards healing is both inspiring and relatable. His story serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of mental health and the resilience of the human spirit. His tale made all the more heart-wrenchingly powerful knowing that Matthew Perry is no longer with us.

Four stars for a courageous and impactful memoir that resonates long after the final words are spoken.

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โ€œ๐˜ ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ. ๐˜ˆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜จ๐˜ฉ, ๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜บ๐˜ด ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ด ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜จ๐˜ฉ. ๐˜ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ช๐˜ฅ๐˜ฏโ€™๐˜ต ๐˜จ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต. ๐˜ˆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฐ. ๐˜โ€™๐˜ฎ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ, ๐˜โ€™๐˜ฎ ๐˜ข ๐˜ธ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ. ๐˜โ€™๐˜ฎ ๐˜ข ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ. ๐˜ˆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ข ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต. ๐˜ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ด ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฎ๐˜บ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ญ๐˜ง, ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ด, ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฏ ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜ถ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฌ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ด. ๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ข ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜โ€™๐˜ฎ ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ. ๐˜ˆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜จ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜บ ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ฌ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ด ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ง๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ฐ๐˜ง ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ. ๐˜ˆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ช๐˜ต ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ. ๐˜›๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ณ๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ, ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ. ๐˜‘๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ ๐˜ข๐˜ฎ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ฃ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฑ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ด๐˜ธ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ. ๐˜•๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ ๐˜ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ถ๐˜ฑ, ๐˜ ๐˜ธ๐˜ข๐˜ฌ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ถ๐˜ฑ ๐˜ค๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ด, ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ธ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ด ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ ๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜ช๐˜ต. ๐˜ˆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ตโ€™๐˜ด ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜จ๐˜ฉ ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ.โ€ 

the_next_chaptergp's review

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challenging informative inspiring sad medium-paced

4.5

sabinagruden's review against another edition

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It's strange to rate a memoir.

Perry opens up about his deep addiction struggle through his life, his fear of abandonment, fear of not being enough, of being left, of being alone.
His portrayal of addiction and his struggles is heartbreak.
I hope he found peace.

ksears27's review

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challenging emotional reflective medium-paced

5.0

dr_bookdragon's review against another edition

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dark emotional hopeful inspiring reflective medium-paced

5.0

emchase13's review against another edition

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funny inspiring reflective slow-paced

4.0

A must read for Friends fans. Perryโ€™s stories about his own struggles mixed with his reflections about Friends are incredibly touching. I listened to this as an audiobook, which he narrated himself, which made the experience even sweeter.