3.18 AVERAGE


A refreshingly insightful novel, I very much enjoyed the author's exploration of modern relationships.

unsympathetic main character

This book was very well written from a males perspective - it still blew my mind it was written by a woman. I found the main character very unlikable, which I do think was the point. It was hard to want to keep reading as he kept treating everyone around him terribly - and nothing really happened in the story.

Tough one - the main character is sort of a pretentious ass. Interesting effort by a female author to speak through a man. But do all men think so very, very hard about women they sleep with? It was exhausting at times.

Really enjoyed this book..definitely have met a Nathaniel P. in my life!
challenging funny reflective medium-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: Complicated
Diverse cast of characters: Yes
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes
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literarycrushes's review

2.75
funny lighthearted reflective slow-paced
Plot or Character Driven: Character
Strong character development: Complicated
Loveable characters: No
Diverse cast of characters: No
Flaws of characters a main focus: Yes

Plot never went anywhere, put it down midway.

Even though this was not a very plot-driven book, I still really enjoyed it. I feel like the author really understands and captured the mindset of a certain, specific group of New Yorkers very well. Or, maybe it's more accurate to say that I believe that the real-life counterparts of the men in her story do actually think and behave in this way. Nate was a dbag most of the time, but was also at times not a total villain, and really only as shallow and vain as we all fear we are at some point. Waldman really captured how small cracks in a relationship become chasms when one half of the pair doesn't want to address them. And the fact that Nate's so self-righteous about his role (or lack thereof) in the thorniness of the relationship is spot on. I sort of hate that I agreed with and understood his point of view as often as I did (but am ultimately glad that I was on Hannah's side basically the entire time).

gimlifreak's review

4.0
dark funny mysterious medium-paced