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Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica Fern
8 reviews
hale7's review against another edition
3.75
Minor: Infidelity, Gaslighting, Physical abuse, Sexual violence, Toxic relationship, Colonisation, Abandonment, Child abuse, and Emotional abuse
tmchopra's review
4.0
Moderate: Abandonment
Minor: Addiction, Emotional abuse, Domestic abuse, Mental illness, Toxic relationship, Pandemic/Epidemic, and Sexual content
christalbotheindl's review
4.5
I also appreciated the suggestions for reflection that help you determine why you are practicing consensual nonmonogamy, what you need from each partner vs what they provide and can provide, what each partner needs from you vs what you provide and can provide. I found it illuminating to read the chapters and reflect on the questions. It also informed me of what I wasn't getting in my attached relationship when my relationship was monogamous and how ridiculous it was of me to feel resentment towards my partner for not providing it — so I believe it will strengthen my already existing marriage as well, by helping me understand the nature of that relationship and what we share in it.
Minor: Toxic relationship, Emotional abuse, and Abandonment
reallivingthing's review
5.0
Moderate: Abandonment and Mental illness
violetends's review
4.75
This is well-researched and based on years of personal experience as a therapist focused on non-monogamous individuals and relationships. Her perspective is empathetic while gently nudging the reader to glance at painful feelings, experiences and own behaviours. I appreciate this combination a lot and consider it much more helpful than other approaches I have sometimes read.
Polysecure is a good introduction to nonmonogamy but I also believe that more experienced people can take a lot from it, or those who are in connections with people who are less experienced.
Moderate: Emotional abuse, Infidelity, Abandonment, Toxic relationship, Child abuse, and Misogyny
emfass's review
5.0
Moderate: Infidelity, Emotional abuse, and Toxic relationship
Minor: Child abuse and Abandonment
rtaire's review against another edition
5.0
Moderate: Emotional abuse, Infidelity, and Toxic relationship
Minor: Abandonment and Child abuse
smoladeryn's review
5.0
I knew most of the concepts in the book before going in, but the way they were collated and presented was digestible, practical, and with utmost compassion.
MUST READ! <3
Moderate: Gaslighting, Grief, Infidelity, Abandonment, Ableism, Child abuse, Colonisation, Classism, Death, Emotional abuse, Panic attacks/disorders, Domestic abuse, and Violence