Reviews tagging 'Fatphobia'

Over the Top: A Raw Journey to Self-Love by Jonathan Van Ness

13 reviews

abelh's review

emotional hopeful inspiring slow-paced

3.5

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Fatphobia, Sexual harassment, Homophobia, Eating disorder, Sexual assault, and Panic attacks/disorders

tieflingmom's review

dark emotional funny hopeful informative inspiring lighthearted reflective sad fast-paced

5.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Physical abuse, Alcoholism, Religious bigotry, Sexual assault, Sexual content, Toxic relationship, Violence, Vomit, Cancer, Rape, Body shaming, Bullying, Chronic illness, Dysphoria, Addiction, Homophobia, Death, Fatphobia, Medical trauma, Outing, Panic attacks/disorders, Suicidal thoughts, Misogyny, Child abuse, Death of parent, Eating disorder, Emotional abuse, Medical content, Lesbophobia, Alcohol, Animal death, Biphobia, Dementia, Grief, Hate crime, Injury/Injury detail, Sexual violence, Drug abuse, Drug use, Mental illness, and Self harm

pacifickat's review against another edition

emotional funny hopeful informative reflective medium-paced

4.0

I'm not sure I could have read a memoir about someone with more different life experiences to my own, but here's to a year of reading broadly! 

The audiobook absolutely made this book work for me as a reader. There were so many jokes and moments that relied on anticipating the correct voice intonation in order to completely land, and it was fun hearing JVN's humor come through in the audio narration. Plus, I would have hopelessly butchered all the Russian pseudonyms in my head.

Lots of trigger warnings could be applied to this book (childhood trauma, sexual content, drug use, self harm, bullying, etc.), but I have rarely heard more accurate or compelling descriptions of addictive behaviors and the self-destructive-yet-all-consuming mental state behind them than here. This felt like an extremely honest and open account of the author's most formative life experiences, and I can't help but admire that. 

I also really appreciated learning a bit about AIDS/HIV stigma, treatments, and current positive prognoses when caught early and managed carefully. This kind of information is truly a public service to get out there in the open.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Cursing, Homophobia, Drug abuse, Bullying, Chronic illness, Self harm, Addiction, Death of parent, Drug use, Cancer, and Injury/Injury detail

Moderate: Dementia, Terminal illness, Alcoholism, Sexual content, Death, Sexual assault, and Alcohol

Minor: Eating disorder and Fatphobia

minaegg's review

dark emotional funny hopeful sad fast-paced

4.75

Very vulnerable and heavy read with difficult subject matter. The book is still beautiful and uplifting, with some lovely humor. Jonathan shows that despite experiencing trauma and adversity, we all have the capacity to heal and thrive. Ultimately his story is about learning to love yourself and to forgive yourself, to care for yourself, to know that you matter, always. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Body shaming, Bullying, Medical content, Homophobia, Mental illness, Blood, Eating disorder, Cursing, Fatphobia, and Grief

Moderate: Drug use, Addiction, Child abuse, and Terminal illness

sarahs_booknook's review against another edition

challenging emotional inspiring reflective fast-paced

3.25

JVN is lovely and has been through a lot. I finished this feeling like it was a light read even though the topics are heavy.  
The structure is a bit flighty as we move very quickly through things so sometimes i was getting lost. There are however some insightful reflective moments. 
Do be mindful of the tw topics as lots are touched on. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Drug abuse and Drug use

Moderate: Suicidal thoughts, Homophobia, Sexual assault, and Sexual violence

Minor: Fatphobia and Eating disorder

cayleeguy's review against another edition

emotional funny hopeful informative sad tense medium-paced

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Addiction, Homophobia, Sexual assault, Mental illness, Drug use, Drug abuse, Fatphobia, Eating disorder, Cancer, Body shaming, and Death of parent

itstheconnorsbookclub's review

dark emotional funny informative inspiring sad fast-paced

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Alcohol, Self harm, Alcoholism, Bullying, Cancer, Death, Drug abuse, Drug use, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Homophobia, Injury/Injury detail, Addiction, Body shaming, Child abuse, Blood, Hate crime, Sexual assault, and Sexual content

carly_the_librarian's review

emotional funny inspiring fast-paced

4.0

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Bullying, Drug abuse, Drug use, Fatphobia, Homophobia, and Sexual assault

belle2008's review against another edition

emotional hopeful inspiring medium-paced

3.75

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Addiction, Death of parent, Cancer, and Bullying

Moderate: Death, Dementia, Drug abuse, Drug use, Eating disorder, Fatphobia, Infidelity, Mental illness, Sexual assault, and Suicidal thoughts

stormwise's review against another edition

emotional funny informative inspiring reflective fast-paced

4.0

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Addiction

Moderate: Eating disorder, Homophobia, Drug abuse, and Drug use

Minor: Alcohol, Body shaming, Bullying, Cancer, Child abuse, Death of parent, Fatphobia, Grief, and Infidelity