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Educated by Tara Westover

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I don't typically gravitate towards memoirs or non-fiction books, but I kept hearing people rave about this book so naturally I had to read it; and I am SO glad I did. 

Tara Westover's story is fascinating because it is so different than the norm. The book reads like a fiction, and I had to remind myself throughout the book that this was Tara's reality growing up and not just a story. 

It takes immense courage to tell your story, especially when your story is as difficult as Westover's. If you like stories where the main character finds themselves and pushes through adversity, this story is for you! 

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What can I say that hasn't already been said by people much smarter than I am? It's worth the read.

Educated does center around abusive familial relationships and neglect, but I appreciated at the attention paid to the emotional experience as a child living in that environment rather than just retelling events. I felt like we really got inside Tara's head both as a child and as an adult, and I think it takes a great writer to pull that off in an interesting way.

Anyone who has survived abuse and/or neglect will relate heavily to Tara's story, even if you haven't experienced the specific flavor of religious fanaticism and doomsday preparation she experienced. I especially liked the inclusion of Tara's many, many experiences gaslighting herself and justifying the behavior of those around her. I found it to be an incredibly relatable and realistic portrayal of the complicated and confusing nature of abusive relationships, especially when those relationships are familial.

I do think this book is a bit mis-marketed sometimes, and a lot of reviewers put emphasis on the survival aspect of the book which I think is the tamest and least important part of all. It actually put me off on picking this book up for so long because I wasn't interested in reading a memoir that centered around doomsday prepping and wilderness survival. Instead, I think the thread that ties the memoir together is the importance of education, and how Tara's own education (in all its good, bad, and ugly forms) shaped her into the person she is today. 

I was a bit disappointed that the audiobook wasn't read by the author, but I saw it won an Audie award so I stayed tuned; I didn't particularly like how it made the book come across as disconnected and way less emotional than it should have been. Though I think the narrator herself did a great job and I appreciated the way she used different voices to keep track of the many important people in Tara's story.

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