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Before We Were Trans: A New History of Gender by Kit Heyam

friendofthefrogs's review

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5.0

ITS SO GOOD THE EPILOGUE NEARLY MADE ME START BAWLING THIS BOOK WAS SO COMPASSIONATE AND THOUGHTFUL!!!

ylshelflove's review against another edition

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informative medium-paced

4.0

 
"[𝑻]𝒉𝒆 𝒃𝒂𝒕𝒕𝒍𝒆 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒕𝒓𝒂𝒏𝒔 π’“π’Šπ’ˆπ’‰π’•π’” π’•π’π’…π’‚π’š π’Šπ’” π’ƒπ’†π’Šπ’π’ˆ π’‡π’π’–π’ˆπ’‰π’• 𝒐𝒏 𝒕𝒉𝒆 π’ƒπ’‚π’•π’•π’π’†π’ˆπ’“π’π’–π’π’…π’” 𝒐𝒇 π’‰π’Šπ’”π’•π’π’“π’š.” 

This book highlights the history of non-heteronormative gender expression and identity by sharing the stories of people from different times and cultures. Most of this info was new to me, and I really enjoyed learning about gender presentations across and outside of the gender binary. 

Throughout the whole book, Heyam grapples with the balance between demonstrating that trans people have always existed, and being careful not to misconstrue or misrepresent how people from the past understood themselves. Historical artifacts like news articles, personal journals, or letters are certainly evidence of people living outside of gender norms, but there is often no way to know for sure whether or not they would have called themselves β€œtransgender” as we understand the term today. 

And while Heyam argues that that’s not a reason that these people should be excluded from trans history (β€œemotional connection to the past isn’t a zero-sum game”) they argue that part of honoring and respecting the dead is acknowledging the complexity of human identity, expression, and cultural contexts to give them a β€œhumanising historiography” 

acma708's review

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hopeful informative medium-paced

5.0

avidales's review against another edition

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challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

5.0

smillas_tales's review against another edition

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informative reflective

5.0

emlynbooks's review

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5.0

Upon finishing this book I felt compelled to start it over again just to feel all of the feelings I experienced through it. This book is powerful required reading for all queer people. I’ve never felt so part of a community. Truly astonishing.

rsk1315's review against another edition

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informative reflective slow-paced

3.0

annika_fabbi's review

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emotional informative reflective medium-paced

4.5

augustgreatsword's review against another edition

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challenging informative medium-paced

4.0

thepunkmystic's review

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informative inspiring medium-paced

4.75

I read this book based on the recommendation of a blog I think highly of and I am so, so grateful to have read this book. I found the way it taught me how to be aware of how I approach history to be gentle but firm, with an awareness of how my background might cause harm. I read this immediately after reading "Reclaiming Two-Spirit" and the difference is staggering (in a favorable way towards Before We Were Trans). 

We've always been here. We will be here. I'm so thankful, again, for this book. 

As someone who is embracing their queer identity, the acknowledgements made me tear up, particularly the end.