Reviews tagging 'Terminal illness'

Leg: The Story of a Limb and the Boy Who Grew from It by Greg Marshall

9 reviews

mirandaleighhhh's review

emotional funny lighthearted sad medium-paced

3.0

Given Greg Marshall's life experiences, I totally understand the dark humor that was necessary for his family dynamic. There was a lot in here that made me chuckle, and a few portions that made me tear. 

However, there were things that made me uncomfortable while listening. I could have done without (or with fewer specifics) the discovery of the back massager, and there was more penis talk than I think was necessary for his story to be told. It didn't add but rather took away from what was going on, and I didn't find these portions as humorous. I also think that he could have adjusted the way he talked about his sister's autism to be more conscientious of the time and possible readers.

At the end of the day, it's his story, and wow Greg has experienced more pain than has ever touched my personal life. 

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Cancer, Death of parent, Terminal illness, Medical trauma, and Homophobia

sglance9's review

funny reflective medium-paced

4.25

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Cancer, Death of parent, Sexual content, Terminal illness, Chronic illness, Death, and Medical content

Moderate: Toxic relationship

Minor: Addiction and Ableism

ruthie_the_librarian's review against another edition

challenging emotional funny lighthearted medium-paced

2.0

2/3 stars - there were things I liked, and things I didn't like.  It's really graphic sexually, which is fine if that's what you're there for, but honestly it felt like a fifteen year old boy writing, not a grown man, and those parts felt awkward and exhausting to read.
I much preferred the parts about his family, even if I was somewhat incredulous reading some events.  Did his parents really gaslight him for all those many, many years about what was wrong with his leg?  Also, if he was so clever (going to a good Uni etc.) how did he never look up what was going on with his body?  I felt like his mum was both terrifying and amazing, and it would be interesting to have her take on what she did as a parent.
You can definitely feel that the book has come from individual essays - there's sometimes repetition, the timeline is off, and the whole book didn't quite hang together for me.  But there were some very moving moments (his dad...) and some very funny moments.
In a few places, I felt there was a lack of acknowledgement of the immense privilege he'd had.  I know that sounds weird because he'd grown up with a disability, and he's gay, and one parent died from ALS and the other has had cancer for forever...but still, there was a lot of money floating around, a lot of experiences in his life that he just seemed to take for granted, but not much self awareness around that.
So, a mixed bag with this...lots of it I found very easy to read, and some of it was almost impossible to get through, but it did move me.  I was glad he was happy at the end.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Medical content, Terminal illness, and Sexual content

imstephtacular's review against another edition

dark emotional funny inspiring reflective sad medium-paced

3.75

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Medical content, Injury/Injury detail, Ableism, Death of parent, Cancer, Medical trauma, Sexual content, and Terminal illness

Moderate: Cursing, Bullying, Homophobia, Addiction, Drug use, Chronic illness, Eating disorder, Body shaming, Death, Gaslighting, Mental illness, and Alcohol

Minor: Fatphobia, Blood, Classism, Excrement, Pregnancy, Racism, Toxic relationship, Vomit, Lesbophobia, and Violence

thebookishmuggle's review against another edition

challenging emotional funny reflective medium-paced

4.0

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Death, Ableism, Terminal illness, and Homophobia

abbie_'s review

funny hopeful reflective medium-paced

3.0

Coincidentally the second book I’ve read this year by a gay man with cerebral palsy, but I didn’t gel with this memoir as much as I did Just By Looking at Him. A few of my issues were the same - Mitchell is cis and white, middle class and sometimes a little unaware / blasé about his privilege. Some of his quips, mostly in the past, missed the mark in terms of internalised ableism re his sister’s neurodivergence (wanting to find out what’s ‘wrong’ with her) as well as a rape ‘quip’ that was just… no. 

Mitchell has a large than life family who have had more than their fair share of medical misfortune. I liked the way they all had each other’s backs, through his mother’s seemingly endless chemo to his father’s surprise diagnosis with ALS. His dad especially seemed like a wonderful person and I’m glad Mitchell had such a great support system in him. 

I feel like a couple of the chapters were unnecessarily stretched out (like his shady boyfriend Kevin - that should have been an online essay at most), while we completely skim over Mitchell meeting his now husband. 

But I did appreciate the perspective of a physically disabled gay man, and overall it was an entertaining read. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Terminal illness, Cancer, Ableism, and Medical content

Moderate: Homophobia and Lesbophobia

quinnjuliac's review against another edition

funny lighthearted reflective slow-paced

3.0

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Ableism, Cancer, Chronic illness, and Terminal illness

judereadsalot's review against another edition

funny hopeful reflective sad medium-paced

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Death of parent, Ableism, Chronic illness, Terminal illness, Homophobia, Cancer, Outing, Medical trauma, Grief, and Death

amobrien's review

emotional funny reflective medium-paced

4.0

Leg is a fantastic memoir on sexuality, disability, and family. For a book filled with heartbreak and loss, there's so much humor and joy and love. I loved reading about Greg Marshall's life, especially when it came to his relationship with his family.

Thank you Netgalley for providing a digital ARC.

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Death of parent, Ableism, Cancer, and Chronic illness

Minor: Drug use, Eating disorder, Homophobia, Addiction, Sexual content, Terminal illness, Suicidal thoughts, Medical content, Lesbophobia, and Death