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I got an ARC of this book.
I was super excited to read this book. It is exactly the sort of book that I love to see published. I already teach about how sex isn’t binary in my sex ed class. I don’t go into the in-depth aspects of it, because I doubt I could do that aspect justice and keep the kids interested. If I had the audience that wanted science, I would totally go into it (I ask every time).
That being said, I was excited to learn more. I didn’t learn anything more from reading this book. This is the same stuff I got in an hour lecture from a psych professor in college as part of a psych club event. Most of that lecture was making sure every single person in the room understood why lying to people was wrong and forcing someone to have surgery (or surgery without consent) is wrong. So this book was disappointing for me. I wanted it to be more. Maybe it was the length or maybe it was there is just not a lot of research out there since it has been hidden for so long by the people in power? I don’t know.
I loved the personal stories at the end of the chapters. Those were the parts I looked forward to and found the most engaging. Hearing directly from people can have that emotional impact that the science side can lack. It made the book feel more complete with both science and emotions behind the points made.
The book itself was almost unreadable. There were so many typos and layout errors that I felt like I had to decipher the text to read it. I am hoping that it is just the ARCs that are like that, because otherwise there should be a new editor and the authors should each get new keyboards. “Often” was spelled as “oen” every time it was used. “Different” was “dierent”. I can go on and on about examples of this. There were times when I couldn’t tell what the word was supposed to be anymore from the issues.
In the last chapter or the second to last chapter, the authors lost me entirely. They said that trans people “misrepresent” their sex, by saying they are male if they are a trans man for example. They continued on to say that I would have to pretty much out myself constantly to accurately represent myself to the world, which is both dangerous and unrealistic. They say that calling someone cis erases intersex people, which I can understand. It doesn’t allow for a third option outside of trans and not trans. That was great to think about, but there was also no suggestions for moving forward. Instead it was just shame on trans people for creating another binary. I felt attacked at one point in particular. The authors said that trans people don’t transition their sex, so the narrative of female to male is incorrect. My trans identity is heavily rooted in my body. My issue is my body is not male. My gender has not changed through the process of my transition, it is why I identify as transsexual instead of transgender. So that statement erased my existence. I know it was not the intent to personally attack me, but I still felt attacked. The authors also kept saying that identity is in flux through adolescence, that adults were the ones who could transition. Gender identity is pretty set before a kid is even in elementary school. I started my medical transition at 15. Multiple studies have been done that show trans kids don’t just grow out of being trans and that delaying transitions is not healthy. So pretty much every time trans people were mentioned in this book there was misinformation. So the last sentence that says this is a great guide for the intersex and trans community feels like a lie.
The detail anatomical illustrations I was promised were inter-spaced with weird pictures that made me doubt the books seriousness. There was a weird picture of Godzilla with scissors coming after a clitoris. There was a cartoon about watering a penis until it flowers. I think there were two anatomical illustrations, that was it. There were illustrations about genes and the heavier science parts, but very little that would be anatomical.
I will be very clear on one point: forcing surgery on intersex children is wrong. Body autonomy must be maintained. Consent is necessary. My views on this were reinforced with this book and the more I read from the intersex community. Also, fuck John Money and his bullshit. None of this is new to me, but it is incredibly important to state since not everyone seems to understand why forcing children into surgeries they don’t need isn’t necessary.
I got an ARC of this book.
I was super excited to read this book. It is exactly the sort of book that I love to see published. I already teach about how sex isn’t binary in my sex ed class. I don’t go into the in-depth aspects of it, because I doubt I could do that aspect justice and keep the kids interested. If I had the audience that wanted science, I would totally go into it (I ask every time).
That being said, I was excited to learn more. I didn’t learn anything more from reading this book. This is the same stuff I got in an hour lecture from a psych professor in college as part of a psych club event. Most of that lecture was making sure every single person in the room understood why lying to people was wrong and forcing someone to have surgery (or surgery without consent) is wrong. So this book was disappointing for me. I wanted it to be more. Maybe it was the length or maybe it was there is just not a lot of research out there since it has been hidden for so long by the people in power? I don’t know.
I loved the personal stories at the end of the chapters. Those were the parts I looked forward to and found the most engaging. Hearing directly from people can have that emotional impact that the science side can lack. It made the book feel more complete with both science and emotions behind the points made.
The book itself was almost unreadable. There were so many typos and layout errors that I felt like I had to decipher the text to read it. I am hoping that it is just the ARCs that are like that, because otherwise there should be a new editor and the authors should each get new keyboards. “Often” was spelled as “oen” every time it was used. “Different” was “dierent”. I can go on and on about examples of this. There were times when I couldn’t tell what the word was supposed to be anymore from the issues.
In the last chapter or the second to last chapter, the authors lost me entirely. They said that trans people “misrepresent” their sex, by saying they are male if they are a trans man for example. They continued on to say that I would have to pretty much out myself constantly to accurately represent myself to the world, which is both dangerous and unrealistic. They say that calling someone cis erases intersex people, which I can understand. It doesn’t allow for a third option outside of trans and not trans. That was great to think about, but there was also no suggestions for moving forward. Instead it was just shame on trans people for creating another binary. I felt attacked at one point in particular. The authors said that trans people don’t transition their sex, so the narrative of female to male is incorrect. My trans identity is heavily rooted in my body. My issue is my body is not male. My gender has not changed through the process of my transition, it is why I identify as transsexual instead of transgender. So that statement erased my existence. I know it was not the intent to personally attack me, but I still felt attacked. The authors also kept saying that identity is in flux through adolescence, that adults were the ones who could transition. Gender identity is pretty set before a kid is even in elementary school. I started my medical transition at 15. Multiple studies have been done that show trans kids don’t just grow out of being trans and that delaying transitions is not healthy. So pretty much every time trans people were mentioned in this book there was misinformation. So the last sentence that says this is a great guide for the intersex and trans community feels like a lie.
The detail anatomical illustrations I was promised were inter-spaced with weird pictures that made me doubt the books seriousness. There was a weird picture of Godzilla with scissors coming after a clitoris. There was a cartoon about watering a penis until it flowers. I think there were two anatomical illustrations, that was it. There were illustrations about genes and the heavier science parts, but very little that would be anatomical.
I will be very clear on one point: forcing surgery on intersex children is wrong. Body autonomy must be maintained. Consent is necessary. My views on this were reinforced with this book and the more I read from the intersex community. Also, fuck John Money and his bullshit. None of this is new to me, but it is incredibly important to state since not everyone seems to understand why forcing children into surgeries they don’t need isn’t necessary.
thefreckledbookworm's review against another edition
WHY ARE SO MANY AMAZING-SOUNDING BOOKS SO DISAPPOINTING.
There are so many typos, misspelled words and general lack of punctuation that this book is basically unreadable. While I know this is and ARC, and some errors are POSSIBLE... I don't have the impression anyone took the time to edit this book before putting it out there. I don't even understand what I'm reading because I need to guess MORE THAN A FEW WORDS in each sentence. DNFing
There are so many typos, misspelled words and general lack of punctuation that this book is basically unreadable. While I know this is and ARC, and some errors are POSSIBLE... I don't have the impression anyone took the time to edit this book before putting it out there. I don't even understand what I'm reading because I need to guess MORE THAN A FEW WORDS in each sentence. DNFing
kate_the_bibliophile's review against another edition
4.0
Very insightful book about the meaning of gender and sex, especially what it means to be intersex and what that has consequently brought upon people who identity as such.
Would recommend to anyone fascinated about gender, like myself.
Would recommend to anyone fascinated about gender, like myself.
littlebookterror's review
4.0
This is a very interesting scientific look at the biology and language surrounding physical sex, genitals, and genomes. It's written in an educational tone without sounding patronizing.
I am a strong advocate for more LGBTQIA+ representation but know very little about the I in the acronym personally. This book offered many explanations and further research options if needed.
It offers a detailed explanation of what variants of sex the human body can be made up of and how we failed to properly classify it and force it into the known male/female binary. While it didn't offer me any new information on the topic, I was able to understand it all despite being a non-native English speaker. It also sheds a light on non-Western people and how they had more genders but were forced to assimilate.
The scholarly chapters are broken up by personal stories from intersex individuals and how they grew up and searched for their right identity. Those talk about the overlap between sex and racism or LGBTQIA+ community in important ways. I found those stories the most fascinating and eye-opening.
I did think it was a bit too short overall. I would have been interested in some numbers and what studies have been done so far. I know this is not the most interesting thing but graphs and figures would have made it palatable.
I do have to say that the atrocious formatting of the arc makes it harder for me to separate my feelings of the book itself from the actual content inside.
I received an advanced reading copy from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
I am a strong advocate for more LGBTQIA+ representation but know very little about the I in the acronym personally. This book offered many explanations and further research options if needed.
It offers a detailed explanation of what variants of sex the human body can be made up of and how we failed to properly classify it and force it into the known male/female binary. While it didn't offer me any new information on the topic, I was able to understand it all despite being a non-native English speaker. It also sheds a light on non-Western people and how they had more genders but were forced to assimilate.
The scholarly chapters are broken up by personal stories from intersex individuals and how they grew up and searched for their right identity. Those talk about the overlap between sex and racism or LGBTQIA+ community in important ways. I found those stories the most fascinating and eye-opening.
I did think it was a bit too short overall. I would have been interested in some numbers and what studies have been done so far. I know this is not the most interesting thing but graphs and figures would have made it palatable.
I do have to say that the atrocious formatting of the arc makes it harder for me to separate my feelings of the book itself from the actual content inside.
I received an advanced reading copy from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
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