zapkode's review against another edition

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5.0

{My thoughts} – I am a huge fan of Jarrett J. Krosoczka’s illustrations in the Jedi Academy books. When I’d seen this book was coming out I wanted to read it so that I could learn more about the artist and writer. Jarrett didn’t have what would be considered a normal upbringing but to him and his family it was by all accounts normal. It was all he or they knew.

As an adult I am able to relate to a lot of the issues and struggles mentioned within the pages of this book. I can relate to being raised by my grandparents. I can relate to them not always getting along and lots of arguing and fighting. I can relate to the alcohol abuse by one grandparent. Although. in my case it was my grandfather that did the drinking and my grandmother that did most of the yelling. I can relate to not having a mother or a father around. I can relate to having a mother being in and out of my life, but for different reasons then that of what Jarrett’s mother had gone through. I can relate to not knowing or meeting my father until I was well into my teenage years. I can relate to considering my grandparents were my only parents. I can relate to all of that and more within the pages of this book.

Jarrett might not have had the ideal childhood, but he did something that most people don’t. He didn’t let himself become a victim of circumstances and situation and he made the most out of what life had offered him. He proved to his grandparents that his true passion was in his art and they supported him attending art school. Through that support from his family he was able to make a name for himself. He was able to be someone. He was able to be better then his own mother and father.

I really enjoyed reading through this book. At many points it made me feel sad for him and what he’d been through. At other points it made me want to laugh and cry. Through his words and illustrations he was able to pull me into the story of his life. He was able to show me what he’d been through, what he’d overcome and what he was able to achieve.

I recommend this book for any child that is mature enough to handle the content and the language within it’s pages. There is so much that can be learned from within the pages of this book and it would be a crime to prevent children from reading it and seeing that they can become more, with the proper support and desire to be more then their circumstances.

memcgl2's review against another edition

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dark emotional funny hopeful reflective fast-paced

4.25

alivaster's review against another edition

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5.0

I've found a soft spot for graphic novels, and Hey Kiddo didn't disappoint. While not a lighthearted novel, it deals with a lot of heavy topics which aren't appropriate for younger audiences, it made an impact on me while reading it. While this novel can be seen as a darker novel - his mother is in an out of jail due to a heroine addiction and his father is out of the picture, it does have moments where there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Raised by his grandparents, he finds that their love and care really made a difference, even if it wasn't perfect. Really, you learn so much more about the author and what really makes him who he is today. I always find it hard to judge a memoir, but I found that this was still well-written and well-illustrated.

Overall, a good read!

coochieslayer42's review against another edition

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emotional reflective medium-paced

3.0

addi_lee2023's review against another edition

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emotional inspiring

5.0

knkoch's review against another edition

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dark reflective medium-paced

2.75

I picked this up because the content of the memoir (drug addiction and alcohol abuse within a family) appealed to my interests right now, and a recovery-based approach felt like the right fit for such a story. The author included an impressive amount of personal letters, childhood drawings, and photographs within his illustrated narrative, which gave it a realistic texture and contextualized the events within specific decades. Unfortunately, I didn't find the writing as deep or analytical as I was hoping it would be. This account chronicles the events in Krosoczka's life and extended family with little commentary or introspection, and he doesn't seem to pull on threads or investigate patterns or themes. Of course, just telling your life story can be enough, but I wanted him to dig deeper more often. There's a section where he illustrates recurring nightmares he has as a child, which made great use of this format. But otherwise, this was a little disappointing. 

ltgrech's review against another edition

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dark emotional hopeful reflective sad tense fast-paced

4.75

_reading_with_kate_'s review against another edition

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The audiobook version made me cry more than the graphic novel did- am glad to have experienced them both.

bookph1le's review against another edition

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5.0

I read a lot, but I don't typically read a lot of memoirs, graphic or otherwise. It's simply a genre that doesn't entirely appeal to me, not because I think there's anything wrong with it, but because it's usually not my thing. When I do read nonfiction, I prefer history or science.

I knew of this author because my kids were big fans of the Lunch Lady middle grade graphic series. I've never read those myself, but my kids told me things about them, and they sounded clever and fun to me. I could see why my kids took to them as they did.

Flash forward a few years, to me hearing the author being interviewed on Fresh Air. I was surprised by what I'd heard, and touched by the idea that he wanted to write this memoir not just to tell his story, but to tell his story so that young people affected by similar situations might read it and know they're not alone.

Well, I'm here to tell you that I found this deeply moving, very honest, shocking, and complex. Of course I have no idea how accurately Krosoczka is portraying his family members, but it's obvious he's not out to shave off their sharp edges or polish away their less appealing characteristics. Despite that his grandmother raises him and seems to care about him, to say she isn't really loving or nurturing is an understatement. And I think the book does a really compelling job of portraying how complex the author's relationship with his parents was/is, as well as how, even after everything they did to him, he was able to find a way to forge relationships with them.

This was not an easy childhood, not by any stretch. Yes, he does have a home, but that home is problematic, and not just when he's living with his addict mother. I've already mentioned his grandmother, but even though his grandfather seems like a kind and loving man, he's also portrayed as a somewhat absent figure, and one who maybe had a problematic relationship with alcohol. It's pretty clear from this book that addiction is an issue in the author's family.

Yet he doesn't lose sight of anyone's humanity either--including his own. As he tells it, his younger self lashed out at times, and while it's certainly understandable why he did, I also didn't think he went to lengths to make himself look better. This book does a lot to be honest about people's flaws. I can only imagine how incredibly difficult it must have been to write, something he does address in the afterward and acknowledgements.

This book brought me to tears more than once. I could also identify with a lot about it, since the author and I are very close in age. Yet even though his struggles take place in the eighties and nineties, this book is sadly timely in 2018, thanks to the opioid epidemic this country is in the middle of. My takeaway from this, as with other books about drug addiction, is that addiction is a horrible scourge on this country, one that for decades--even centuries--we haven't been doing nearly enough about. If this book doesn't illustrate the critical importance of our country shaping up and coming up with better drug policy and providing addicts with better access to high-quality, affordable treatment, I don't know what does. I read Dopesick this year as well, and it's sad how little things have changed since Krosoczka was going through his childhood struggles.

Also, major shout out to the author and the foundation he created for arts education for kids in his hometown. I always respect this kind of giving back to the community and wish the government would take a page from activists' books.

mariuskarolius's review against another edition

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dark emotional fast-paced

2.0