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All You Can Ever Know

Nicole Chung

3.97 AVERAGE

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I wish I had read this book earlier in my life. So many of the same thoughts and experiences were ones I had growing up and felt isolated about. 

(audiobook—probably colored my enjoyment of this book)

This is not my favorite kind of memoir. I prefer memoirs that read more like a story rather than vignettes with narration in between. This is the memoir of a Korean-American adoptee to an all-white family. Nicole decides to search for her birth family while she is pregnant with her first daughter. For me, the story picked up at this point and I loved reading about her relationship with her full biological sister, Cindy (she has a half-sister too). The stories and moments with Cindy and their father were my favorite and I would’ve happily read more. Overall, thoughtful and thought provoking.
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Style/writing: 4 stars
Themes: 4.5 stars
Perspective: 4.5 stars

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Author shares her own story in a manner that takes the reader in her own journey reflecting and connecting 

I have transracial adoption in my family and I found this book very relatable.

i don’t usually put books i read for school into my goodreads because i don’t like to put books ive been forced to read, but i genuinely loved this
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Deeply moving, reflective, and an invitation to rethink, revalue, and acknowledge the complexities of adoption.

I think Nicole Chung expressed her lived experiences as a Korean baby adopted in a White family in the US very effectively for readers to understand and to emphasize with.