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spark_879's review
informative
fast-paced
4.25
this book seems geared towards kids (phrasing, illustrations) but i think people of any age could learn things from it. it seeks to educate readers about how to practice & value consent in a society that largely does not value consent.
the book discusses verbal vs nonverbal consent, sexual consent, consent with private information (as opposed to with bodily autonomy, and consent with unequal power dynamics. it defines many key words (such as consent, agency, grooming) within the text and also includes a glossary of terms
at the back of the book.
lastly, there is diverse representation of scenarios and people in the book, and it discusses topics such as non-medical and nonconsensual surgeries on intersex babies and unequal power dynamics in relationships due to racism/classism/queerphobia/ableism/etc.
i would recommend this book to anyone of any age looking for an accessible, in-depth, quick read about consent.
thank you to netgalley and hachette uk for allowing me to read an arc of this book in exchange for an honest review.
the book discusses verbal vs nonverbal consent, sexual consent, consent with private information (as opposed to with bodily autonomy, and consent with unequal power dynamics. it defines many key words (such as consent, agency, grooming) within the text and also includes a glossary of terms
at the back of the book.
lastly, there is diverse representation of scenarios and people in the book, and it discusses topics such as non-medical and nonconsensual surgeries on intersex babies and unequal power dynamics in relationships due to racism/classism/queerphobia/ableism/etc.
i would recommend this book to anyone of any age looking for an accessible, in-depth, quick read about consent.
thank you to netgalley and hachette uk for allowing me to read an arc of this book in exchange for an honest review.
kjkbooks's review
4.0
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I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily. This is such a great book for teaching bodily autonomy to kids. It would have been great to have this as a kid, being a girl in one of the generations raised to put others needs first. It was great to see how to handle disappointment and rejection and different forms of no or nonconsent. The section explaining the difference between private information, surprises and secrets and when secrets should be told to a trusted adult to help protect against grooming, and also explaining in a child friendly way what exactly grooming is for them to be more aware themselves. I personally loved the bit about disabled people and consent regarding their medical aids since as a disabled person myself this is something I’ve seen adults struggle with. The illustrations are also great and diverse which can help different kids feel identified with and pay more attention to.
Favourite Quote:
"Even if we’re not in a culture that values consent and body autonomy, we can create that culture by saying loudly and clearly what our bodies want and need."
I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily. This is such a great book for teaching bodily autonomy to kids. It would have been great to have this as a kid, being a girl in one of the generations raised to put others needs first. It was great to see how to handle disappointment and rejection and different forms of no or nonconsent. The section explaining the difference between private information, surprises and secrets and when secrets should be told to a trusted adult to help protect against grooming, and also explaining in a child friendly way what exactly grooming is for them to be more aware themselves. I personally loved the bit about disabled people and consent regarding their medical aids since as a disabled person myself this is something I’ve seen adults struggle with. The illustrations are also great and diverse which can help different kids feel identified with and pay more attention to.
Favourite Quote:
"Even if we’re not in a culture that values consent and body autonomy, we can create that culture by saying loudly and clearly what our bodies want and need."
jadehusdanhicks's review
informative
inspiring
5.0
This is a must read book for honestly all early teens and is also a great guide for parents on knowing how to approach sensitive topics such as sex and sexual safety and the wider connotations of consent with their kids.
This includes everything from:
-consent (not just sexually but say for doctors, basic physical content and touching disabled peoples aids)
-difference between consent and agency
-setting boundaries
-trusted networks
-how to recognise grooming
-impacts of power dynamics, porn and unsafe situations
-how isms and phobias can impact consent
-affirmative consent
-code words
-boundaries about when and where is appropriate to talk about bodies
Filled with resources for all diverse individuals and diverse rep throughout including gender (including intersex), disability (including neurodivergent), race and more this was a truly inclusive book and a vital modern resource that more people should have access to.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Racism, Ableism, Xenophobia, Homophobia, and Pedophilia
jcorbat's review against another edition
5.0
Very well written and informative! I recommend everyone to read this book! The title wasn’t lying when it said Every Body!! Thank you to netgalley for letting me read it early!
turnthepages_nl's review
informative
inspiring
reflective
4.75
What an amazing book. This book should be a staple in every household. It is respectful of gender, sexuality, religion and disability. The language and illustrations used are very inclusive.
The message of this book is SO important. And very well done. Broken off into smaller categories and building onto each other this book gives the right kind of information about what consent is and how it looks. That it's more, way more than saying yes to sexual activity!
There is a special few pages with a focus on consent & disability. And some important lessons are taught:
The message of this book is SO important. And very well done. Broken off into smaller categories and building onto each other this book gives the right kind of information about what consent is and how it looks. That it's more, way more than saying yes to sexual activity!
There is a special few pages with a focus on consent & disability. And some important lessons are taught:
- A mobility aid like a wheelchair is an extention of ones body and should not be touched without consent
- You should not 'help' a disabled person without being asked to do so
Beyond that it talked about clear communication. Especially clear verbal communication when interacting with a neurodivergent person who may not be good at reading non-verbal cues. Also be mindful of people with a learning disability. They may not always understand. So be as clear and precise as possible and give them the time to process!
I love this book. And hope it will be translated into many languages so even more people can teach (their) children all about consent!
panic_at_the_bookshelf's review
informative
fast-paced
5.0
I am someone who often works with minors and this book helped me to find ways to explain the meaning of consent on a level kids and teens will unserstand. I am a fan of how complex words are explained in a simple way instead of being fully skipped. I am glad they added pages with useful resources and a glossary.
Apart from that I learned plenty of things as well, which is a win for me and the people I am working with.
The drawings helped visualise what the author meant and I can imagine it will help teens understand as well.
Thank you to NetGalley, Jessica Kingsley Published and the author for sending me this ARC in exchange for an honest review.
Apart from that I learned plenty of things as well, which is a win for me and the people I am working with.
The drawings helped visualise what the author meant and I can imagine it will help teens understand as well.
Thank you to NetGalley, Jessica Kingsley Published and the author for sending me this ARC in exchange for an honest review.
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