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All About Love: New Visions by bell hooks

26 reviews

lessa_riel's review against another edition

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Writer needs a hood therapist instead of writing this book. Patronising and dated in its views it just made me angry that people thought this was concise and good!
Also, personally I had dealt with anise disclosures at work recently and seh talks too much about her personal abuse instead of making this an academic text.

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jenny_d's review against another edition

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challenging emotional hopeful informative slow-paced

5.0


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lindseyhall44's review

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An absolute must read. 
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““We all long for loving community. It enhances life’s joy. But many of us seek community solely to escape the fear of being alone. Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as means of escape.”

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kirstenf's review

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hopeful reflective medium-paced

3.75


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moo_p's review against another edition

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informative reflective slow-paced

4.25


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eliya's review

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challenging emotional hopeful informative inspiring reflective slow-paced

4.0

My brain is swollen with thought. I took a deep, deep breath when I closed this book. It took me so long to read, it is very very dense. Multiple times a chapter I sat and reflected on what I had read, and I am truly grateful that this book was lovingly recommended to me by other people. 
I realize I am fearful and gatekeepy when it comes to loving. 

Bell Hooks is such a thoughtful writer, I often got lost and had to double back. There is so much information and i do wish the flow was a little more conversational, though I’m unsure how effective that would be. The narrative is also pretty gendered & there’s a religious undertone, so take with that what you will. I did love this book regardless.

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amberinpieces's review against another edition

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informative reflective medium-paced

3.0


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omenglehart's review against another edition

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challenging emotional reflective medium-paced

5.0

This book goes in my "sacred texts" pile. So many new and complex things to consider and learn from. I reread chapters as I went, it was so good! This book changed the way I love myself and others.

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isaa's review

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challenging emotional hopeful inspiring reflective medium-paced

4.0

Estoy de acuerdo con muchas de las criticas que he leído al respecto de este libro. La perspectiva super hetero, el enfoque espiritual desde un punto cristiano, y la falta de fuentes para sus conclusiones son cansados después de un rato. Para el punto en el que llegue al capitulo sobre espiritualidad ya no me dieron muchas ganas de continuar leyendo, como quiera continue y qué bueno que lo hice pero definitivamente me tomo esfuerzo. Sobre la falta de fuentes y datos, entiendo la critica pero también simpatizo con razonamiento de porque escribir así -que sea accessible para cualquier audiencia -, especialmente porque previo a empezar el libro yo tenia la preocupación de que iba a ser muy complicado de entender. A final de cuentas creo que él no acordar con bell hooks en todo fue un buen ejercicio de reflexión.

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justinareads's review

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hopeful informative inspiring reflective medium-paced

4.5


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