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Cat Daddy: What the World's Most Incorrigible Cat Taught Me About Life, Love, and Coming Clean by Jackson Galaxy
2 reviews
snekmint's review
emotional
hopeful
inspiring
reflective
sad
fast-paced
5.0
I've been a big fan of Jackson Galaxy from watching "My Cat From Hell", and then delving into his current YouTube video offerings-- behavior advice, all offered with immense empathy, and a little bit on top about cats being "energetic creatures" that absorb and reflect the energy (mood, intent and energy level) of the people, animals and spaces around them. He describes his approach to cats as 'holistic', meaning that he approaches the "whole cat": a behavior issue is not just caused by one source (such as a painful hip) but can be exacerbated by the human stress of a divorce, loud cars driving by outside, a cramped and dirty house, AND a litter box that needs to be cleaned more regularly. His point is that all cats can be helped, if you will actually listen to them and approach them from the cat's perspective of what is needed, not the human's. If your cat NEEDS a litter box in the living room because that's the most 'socially important' space, you will just have to deal with that.
This can be confronting to a lot of people who want their cats to 1. be dogs and 2. be quiet, out of the way decorations. Jackson's approach is that cats are deeply intelligent half-wild animals who have emotional, physical and spiritual/psychic needs that CAN be met and CAN be harmonious, IF we listen to them.
Where did he get this insight? In this autobiography, which is written with author Joel Derfner, Jackson carries us through a lot of chapters that are hard to witness and hard to live-- his wild misspent youth as a musician, living in situations between homeless and couch-surfing, living in a warehouse with no running water, using lots and lots of substances, and dipping in and out of unhealthy relationships both romantic and otherwise. His journey with animals is his journey in and out of addiction and recovery, and ultimately, the infinite love of animals and the universe brings him to his "surrender" moment, when he realizes that he is trying too hard to blame everyone but himself for his suffering. All along the way he has companion animals, but one in particular is a constant challenge: Benny, a gray and white cat, who is aggravating, unlovable, broken, disruptive, inscrutable, and awful -- and finally Jackson sees, with the deep stillness that comes with enlightenment, that he and Benny are the same.
This book ends when it was published, in 2012, but Jackson Galaxy's business and practice have continued over the next 11 years and I would love to see more chapters appended to this autobiography that discuss how he's continued to make a living in harsh L.A.
If you're an empathetic type, this book will probably make you cry. Fair warning if you're reading it on your bus commute!
This can be confronting to a lot of people who want their cats to 1. be dogs and 2. be quiet, out of the way decorations. Jackson's approach is that cats are deeply intelligent half-wild animals who have emotional, physical and spiritual/psychic needs that CAN be met and CAN be harmonious, IF we listen to them.
Where did he get this insight? In this autobiography, which is written with author Joel Derfner, Jackson carries us through a lot of chapters that are hard to witness and hard to live-- his wild misspent youth as a musician, living in situations between homeless and couch-surfing, living in a warehouse with no running water, using lots and lots of substances, and dipping in and out of unhealthy relationships both romantic and otherwise. His journey with animals is his journey in and out of addiction and recovery, and ultimately, the infinite love of animals and the universe brings him to his "surrender" moment, when he realizes that he is trying too hard to blame everyone but himself for his suffering. All along the way he has companion animals, but one in particular is a constant challenge: Benny, a gray and white cat, who is aggravating, unlovable, broken, disruptive, inscrutable, and awful -- and finally Jackson sees, with the deep stillness that comes with enlightenment, that he and Benny are the same.
This book ends when it was published, in 2012, but Jackson Galaxy's business and practice have continued over the next 11 years and I would love to see more chapters appended to this autobiography that discuss how he's continued to make a living in harsh L.A.
If you're an empathetic type, this book will probably make you cry. Fair warning if you're reading it on your bus commute!
Content Warnings
Graphic: Animal death, Drug abuse, Eating disorder, Addiction, and Grief
vcollazo's review
emotional
informative
medium-paced
4.0
Jackson Galaxy’s journey to becoming the cat behaviorist he came to be was not at all what I expected. His tone is very conversational, which made the book easy to read despite some of the difficult periods he went through. Tips and information on cat behavior increase after the 45% mark. I had initially picked this up not realizing it was an autobiography but it has only made me more curious about his other published materials.
Content Warnings
Graphic: Addiction
Moderate: Animal death and Eating disorder
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