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hollyrebeccasmith's review
3.0
Definitely an interesting book with a good goal that I can get behind, but oof it was hard to get through at times. I didn't like how the studies were presented and I got bored of the stories. But an important book for sure.
avesmaria's review
4.0
This book has some flaws - it makes some sweeping generalizations in a couple parts, especially in the chapter about Western vs. Eastern society - but overall I think this is an illuminating peek into a characteristic I always knew about myself, but had trouble understanding fully. Cain uses data gathered from many different studies and sources to look at what at introvert is, what it isn't, why our society is built around the cult of extroversion, and what introverts need out of working environments and relationships. Most importantly, she talks a lot about cherishing the qualities of introverts - people who plan, think deeply, cherish close relationships, and are often highly perceptive and sensitive. As an introvert myself, it gave me some justification and confidence to take pride in qualities that are mistakenly dismissed as shyness or antisocial behavior, and to be more honest with myself about what I need in my work life and in relationships.
ratelyn's review
3.0
I think this book is a must-read for anyone (introverts and extraverts alike) who cares to understand their peers, friends, children, students, employees, or partner.
Susan Cain offers real advice on better navigating interpersonal relationships, child-rearing, classroom leading, team managing, and romantic cooperation.
"Whoever you are, bear in mind that appearance is not reality. Some people act like extraverts, but the effort costs them in energy, authenticity, and even physical health. Others seem aloof or self-contained, but their inner landscapes are rich and full of drama."
Susan Cain offers real advice on better navigating interpersonal relationships, child-rearing, classroom leading, team managing, and romantic cooperation.
"Whoever you are, bear in mind that appearance is not reality. Some people act like extraverts, but the effort costs them in energy, authenticity, and even physical health. Others seem aloof or self-contained, but their inner landscapes are rich and full of drama."