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Violet Ghosts by Leah Thomas

7 reviews

rynstagram's review

4.0

*review based on an ARC

I love how this book uses pop culture references to anchor the plot, as well as the names of people and ghosts. 

I've always thought that trans-ness and queerness have a lot in common with being a ghost, and this book explores that as well as how trauma in general has a lot in common with ghostliness. 

It has kind of a slow start and the pacing could be a bit better, especially with Danny's friendship with Seiji, and the last chapter is kind of a quick summary of how everything wraps up which I don't always love. 

But I was surprised by how much depth and heart this book has; I love being caught off guard with a good book turning quickly into a great one!

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Child death, Mental illness, Murder, Rape, Sexual violence, Suicide, Blood, Transphobia, Death of parent, Adult/minor relationship, Addiction, Child abuse, Deadnaming, Emotional abuse, Injury/Injury detail, Death, Sexism, Toxic relationship, Domestic abuse, Grief, Sexual assault, and Alcoholism

Moderate: Violence, Dysphoria, Fire/Fire injury, Bullying, Incest, Alcohol, Confinement, and Gaslighting

Minor: Torture and Terminal illness

elizabethwebb's review

adventurous dark emotional reflective sad tense medium-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated

4.5

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Sexual assault, Rape, Violence, Transphobia, Toxic friendship, Suicide, Sexual harassment, Domestic abuse, Deadnaming, Confinement, Child death, Child abuse, Toxic relationship, Sexual violence, Sexism, Racism, Racial slurs, Physical abuse, Pedophilia, Panic attacks/disorders, Lesbophobia, Incest, Homophobia, Fire/Fire injury, Emotional abuse, Dysphoria, Death of parent, Death, Bullying, Alcoholism, Addiction, and Abandonment

abbyd's review

dark mysterious tense fast-paced

3.25

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Content Warnings

Moderate: Domestic abuse and Murder

legalplanner's review

challenging dark emotional mysterious reflective tense slow-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? Character
• Strong character development? It's complicated
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5

This book was not at all what I suspected. It was a slower read than I was prepared for as well as not what the synopsis sounded like. 

Dani’s gender and gender identity play a major roll in this book and while the synopsis says Dani is trans but it was a large focus of the novel. While dealing with and experiencing ghosts, the main premise definitely felt like the bigger picture was self love, acceptance, and knowing when to tell others about wrong doings. 

The abuse was not always deeply described. But it was hard to know something happened.

This was a slower read for me and the last 30 pages were probably the best for me and where I finally found I powered through the novel. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Deadnaming and Homophobia

Moderate: Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Emotional abuse, and Sexual harassment

Minor: Suicide

corvidprince's review

emotional fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? It's complicated
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes

2.5

I wanted to like this book, I really did. When I first heard about a book with ghosts, a transgender & disabled main character, this book became a must read. Unfortunately, it really just did not live up to anything I hoped it would be. 

I'll just start with this book being needlessly triggering. if you have PTSD from anything this book is not for you, and I cannot stress this enough. Almost every single traumatic experience you could think of is described in gruesome and unnecessary detail. I understand that some description of trauma is necessary, but this book was over the top. 

one of the main characters, and Dani's best friend, is also a blatant TERF, and I do not use that word lightly. throughout the entire book I was expecting them to fall out with each other, and to some extent that did happen, but Dani still forgives her and still wants to be friends even though the character is blatantly a radical feminist and transphobic--right down to believing Dani is betraying women and joining the enemy by transitioning.

those two things along with a couple of distasteful trans tropes just ruined the entire book for me. it had so much potential but it was completely butchered.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Blood, Bullying, Child abuse, Child death, Deadnaming, Death, Death of parent, Domestic abuse, Dysphoria, Misogyny, Murder, Panic attacks/disorders, Pedophilia, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Torture, and Transphobia

Moderate: Ableism, Cancer, Suicide, Terminal illness, and Alcoholism

Minor: Homophobia

seawarrior's review

challenging dark emotional hopeful reflective sad tense fast-paced

• Plot- or character-driven? A mix
• Strong character development? Yes
• Loveable characters? Yes
• Diverse cast of characters? Yes
• Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

This was a difficult book to read because of the subject matter, but it was written very smoothly. I really appreciated the messages about victimization and recovery that are weaved throughout the narrative. I was also relieved that the story ended on a note of acceptance, with Danny now knowing that life will always be ambiguous, and not all people are evil, and he doesn't have to sacrifice himself to play savior to people who aren't yet willing to put distance between themselves and their trauma. Those are troublesome but important lessons for all people to learn, especially when you have been victimized in the past. 

I recommend this book to other readers, but please take note of the content warnings. The story does not shy away from descriptions of physical, sexual, and incestuous assault, though thankfully these events are described on the survivor's own terms.

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Adult/minor relationship, Alcohol, Alcoholism, Body shaming, Bullying, Cancer, Child abuse, Child death, Confinement, Cursing, Deadnaming, Death, Death of parent, Domestic abuse, Dysphoria, Emotional abuse, Fire/Fire injury, Grief, Incest, Lesbophobia, Misogyny, Murder, Pedophilia, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexism, Sexual assault, Sexual harassment, Sexual violence, Suicide, Suicide attempt, Toxic friendship, and Transphobia

Moderate: Homophobia, Racism, and Religious bigotry

utopiastateofmind's review

• Diverse cast of characters? Yes

2.75

(Disclaimer: I received this book from the publisher. This has not impacted my review which is unbiased and honest.)

Violet Ghosts is a book about the past, trauma, and friendships. It is a very intense book and I had to not only take breaks, but I also was kept awake at night by some of the imagery. Yes I am a big scaredy cat, but I also felt like there are some harrowing scenes and I wish I had spread the book out across more days than I did. My favorite element has to be the ways Thomas uses the ghosts as metaphors for dealing with our trauma. Trauma, and dealing with it, making peace with the past, and forgiveness are huge issues in Violet Ghosts. And just based on that, you can see how a lot of our language surrounding death, grief, and loss lend themselves to excellent metaphors with ghosts.

I immediately empathized with Dani's character not only because of the ways he has to deal with a friendship that turns toxic, but also his romance storyline. Nothing is simple in Violet Ghosts and even days later I'm not sure how I feel about a few aspects. At multiple points in the book I thought I had a handle on how the book would progress and I was so wrong each time. From the synopsis, this seems like a book that is very focused on dealing with the ghosts, but it's more about Dani. About his own ghosts and trauma and future. 

The ghosts are a large part of the story, but they're more an avenue of how Dani processes his life. While they have their own stories, I always felt that this story is rooted in Dani's experiences. Because of that, some of the messages that are told through the ghosts stories, felt a little shallow compared to the book and Dani's story. 

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Content Warnings

Graphic: Suicide

Moderate: Transphobia, Pedophilia, Incest, Deadnaming, Panic attacks/disorders, Self harm, Sexual assault, and Domestic abuse