Scan barcode
bookcaptivated's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Graphic: Acephobia/Arophobia
Minor: Lesbophobia, Sexual content, Biphobia, Transphobia, Panic attacks/disorders, and Racism
elliott_the_clementine's review
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.75
Also, I firmly endorse Sophie's recommendation of The Half of It, a very cinematically pleasing and completely adorable love story. If you love Dear Wendy, you will probably love The Half of It.
Graphic: Acephobia/Arophobia
Moderate: Biphobia, Lesbophobia, Racism, and Transphobia
Minor: Sexism and Mental illness
blakeandbooks's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
4.0
This book centers around 2 college-aged, aroace friends, Sophie (she/her, Chinese American) + Jo (she/they, white) who are able to bond over their aroace identities and form a queer platonic relationship in the end.
I think that we need more books like this! Zhao did a great job of explaining how both Sophie and Jo feel—what aroace means and what it means to each of them. I love when they both discover they’re aroace, and they get so excited to connect and discuss with someone who understands 🥲
I loved how quickly they became friends and realized how much they enjoy each other’s company. When they created the aroace college group, I thought this was such a great addition to the story! All of the characters who came to be a part of it, and all of them able to connect and affirm each other was so awesome.
I believe this book is going to affirm so many people in their aroace identities, and I hope it continues to connect others!
Graphic: Acephobia/Arophobia
Moderate: Transphobia, Lesbophobia, Biphobia, and Bullying
ashylibrarian's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
5.0
We need more books with aro and/or ace rep, and I am so happy this one exists.
I felt seen. I felt heard. I hope this makes many readers feel the same way.
I am hoping to get my hands on a physical copy to annotate and have a more thought-out review soon 😅
Graphic: Acephobia/Arophobia
Moderate: Bullying, Lesbophobia, and Biphobia
Minor: Transphobia and Toxic relationship
bookishmillennial's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? No
This is both the funniest and most tender young adult story I have read lately!
Sophie (Wendy) & Jo (Wanda) create anonymous dating advice Instagrams for their fellow students at Wellesley College, but they differ in style, delivery, & seriousness. They begin passive aggressively commenting on each other’s posts & reposting messages about each other to their respective stories. It’s goofy, it’s petty, & it’s hilarious!
Meanwhile, they become friends offline & connect over their shared aroace identities! They revive an aroace student discussion group on campus & deepen their friendship. However, they don’t know the other is running the Wendy/Wanda advice column!!!
I loved the use of Instagram, the messy comments, the unserious advice, the cast of queer characters, & Sophie & Jo’s journeys. I especially appreciated how the author highlighted Jo's concerns about their friends getting romantically involved and inadvertently being left behind or forgotten about. It's a stark realization to think about the fact that your alloromantic & allosexual friends could be *your* person, but you may not end up being theirs (because theirs will be their romantic partners). I loved the journey that Sophie & Jo take towards realizing they could be each other's non-romantic partners instead, and that it was enough!
The sadness with with Sophie feels erased by her immigrant Chinese American parents was also so authentically portrayed, with the flippant comments of "You're just picky," or "You'll find someone eventually," being cast her way every time she spoke about being aroace.
This absolutely could be adapted on Netflix to be the next hit of a young adult/new adult coming-of-age tv series about friendship, exploration of self, & communication - this book was both informative and entertaining, and I think so many people will adore Sophie & Jo!
I highly recommend this & am so grateful I read it!
Graphic: Acephobia/Arophobia
Moderate: Biphobia, Lesbophobia, Transphobia, and Bullying
jazzyjbox's review against another edition
- Plot- or character-driven? Character
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? It's complicated
4.75
Sophie and Jo are both aroace and attending Wellesley, and they are both secretly running anonymous advice accounts on Instagram. One is a serious advice column, and the other is a snarky take on it. Their rivalry heats up as their in-person friendship blossoms.
This is one of those books that I wish I'd had a decade ago. I love the platonic love, the Sapphic relationships around the two main characters, and the mixed media format of their posts and texts. I adore the various BIPOC representations and the college-level discussions of exclusion and attraction. The family and friendship dynamics were really interesting, and I adore the idea of an a-spec club.
I think the writing could have been tightened up a little bit, and I unfortunately think this book will not have the lasting power since it is so focused on actual current technology. But I definitely look forward to seeing more from this author with hopefully more a-spec characters!
Moderate: Acephobia/Arophobia
Minor: Biphobia, Transphobia, and Lesbophobia
daniellereadslikealot_'s review
- Plot- or character-driven? A mix
- Strong character development? Yes
- Loveable characters? Yes
- Diverse cast of characters? Yes
- Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
4.0
Moderate: Acephobia/Arophobia, Biphobia, and Lesbophobia