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I really liked the way this was written with both facts and stories from women around the world and of different backgrounds/orientations. It has a great way to light a fire for your own woman-ness.

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Incredible book on feminism and patriarchy. Eltahawy does an excellent job explaining the different ways patriarchy is presented around the world. She highlights feminism from the points of view of women of color, Muslims, immigrants, and queer women and non-binary people. She calls out the issues of white feminism and the consequences of non-intersectionality. Eltahawy was able to educate me on issues I was not aware of while also giving me the language to vocalize my own thoughts. I’m fired up after reading this book! I think it’s an excellent tool not just in the classroom but for people looking for solidarity and those looking to understand patriarchy and feminism from the perspective of marginalized, non-white, non-Western communities. 

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TLDR: The themes and messages of this book about intersectional feminism are revolutionary and vitally important. It is the writing style that seriously lets it down. Don't be put off!

I feel it necessary to say: I love Mona Eltahawy. I love her blog, her newsletter 'Feminist Giant' (which I highly recommend you sign up to), and I love her previous work on intersectional feminism. I fully support the core messages of this book. The reason I've scored 'Seven Necessary Sins' so low is because I think the writing style actually hinders the reader from fully grasping the revolutionary importance of her message. This is evidenced by two factors. One, even I, already an avid supporter who is familar with her work, found this book a slog to get through. Second, it is disappointingly obvious from reading other peoples' reviews that Eltahawy's points are often sailing right over their heads. This could have been easily rectified by cutting down on repetition and maybe giving each chapter a bit more structure, such as: subheadings, core messages, a 'how to practice this sin' ideas, or highlighting case studies. In its current form it reads like a rambling first blog draft where Mona is so caught up in her passion for fucking the Patriachy that it fails to sweep along the uninitiated. Also, please stop using the phrase 'put on notice', you're describing actions of resistance! What you are describing is no longer a warning, but the promised consequences of centuries of warnings. For those that find this book difficult I'd recommend reading this extremely short manifesto first ( Feminism for the 99%: A Manifesto, by Cinzia Arruzza, Nancy Fraser, and Tithi Bhattacharya) then return to Mona's work.

Make no mistake. Each sin she discusses is vital, has solid rationale, and has glorious references. Each 'sin' is a chapter. My favourites are highlighted below. 
  1. Anger
  2. Attention
  3. Profanity* - loved the case studies in this one, I was introduced to some amazing activists such as Stella Nyanzi
  4. Ambition
  5. Power* - loved the reframing of what power is/can be. I read this as supporting revolution rather than reform. E.g. don't aim to become the newest oppressors at the top of the hierachy, burn the hierachy to the ground a build a more equitable society recognising intersections of opporession and experience. I was introduced to the Demita Frazier and The Combahee River Collective Statement.
  6. Violence* - loved the examination of Mary Anne Franks's 'Optimal Violence' 
  7. Lust* - personally enjoyed the bisexuality = rebellion shoutout. She also highlights the importance of Queerness in all its forms and the inclusion of trans WOC (women of colour, in particular Black and Muslim). 

There are many quotable excerpts, below are some of my favourites:

 “As a black woman, I always had to invent the power my freedom requires.” – June Jordan, Jamaican American poet.

Nobody in the world, nobody in history, has ever gotten their freedom by appealing to the moral sense of the people who were oppressing them.” – Assata Shakur, founding member of the Black Liberation Army. 

 "We must teach girls to be free. We must teach girls that they have the right to live without fear of being interrupted, assaulted, insulted, or otherwise abused. We must teach gils to seek adventures and to be independent. And we must teach boys constraint. I hate that word, and I hate the idea of stamping out anybody's freedom, but if the freedom that boys are taught is that their right comes at the expenses of girls - which it does - then we are raising boys with the wrong lessons. We must teach boys that girls do not owe them time, attention, affection, or more; that the bodies of girls belong to girls, and that assaulting or abusing girls is wrong. Full stop." - Mona Eltahawy 

 "...the beating heart of any revolution must be the twin forces of consent and agency". - Mona Eltahawy 

"Unless we impose on societal conciousness just how rife violence againist women is and how it is ordinary men who commit it - and not psychopaths - it will continue to benefit ordinary men." -  Mona Eltahawy 

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"patriarchy is about power, and feminism is about destroying patriarchy."

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"I want patriarchy to know that feminism is rage unleashed against its centuries of crimes against women and girls around the world, crimes that are justified by “culture” and “tradition” and “it’s just the way things are,” all of which are euphemisms for “this world is run by men for the benefit of men.”

I think this is probably my favourite feminist read ever. Mona Eltahawy incorporates her own experiences, and how she has used 'The Seven Necessary Sins' in her own feminism. It's a really empowering and enlightening read that i'd recommend to women and girls of all ages.

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First of all I should say, I didn't know who Mona Eltahawy was before I read this book, and I have really come to like her style.
The book is a bit frenetic and sometimes jumps around, but that seems to be exactly how Mona speaks in interviews and lectures. 
I love her message, it is so bang on, her politics is beautiful to read. 
That isn't to say I agree on all points, I think particularly in the Violence chapter that there is a more nuanced argument to be had there about the adoption and reclaiming of violence and how that might just be sort of out-patriarching the patriarchy, but still I found it really thought provoking.

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Not all of the footnotes seem to point to real data or evidence. For example, the claim about the life expectancy of trans women of color in the US does not seem to be substantiated in any of the three links in the footnotes. It was also only really intersectional in lip-service. But the parts that were the author’s personal experience are powerful, and I appreciated her radical takes on how to fight the patriarchy.

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